i bet im one of those ppl whos pushing u to leave him.

but yea, we can't help u to make decision, i can't say wot i said is right. But at least u open ur mind and listen to everyone of us. Dun be too stubbon or dun be too hard neck. Dun always think ur right, try to think in different ways. Think wot is the best for ur baby. Although a father is needed by the baby, but wot if hes not a good father. Wot can he give ur baby? U can see how he treats his children. would it be the same to urs?? it would be a bad influence to ur baby. Just think twice before u make any decision.

i think i am one of them as well..........i cant say that i'm 100 % understood ur feelings very much...but i know i'm abt 95% of it.... sammi yan...

cant u c....cant u think...besides he is the father of ur dad.he is nth...wat he can do for u?? for baby... the 2nd wife

dnt be so stubborn...can u?? i'm really dnt know wat to say now..i oredi said wat i cud said i think...at ur side...i need to thik 4u..at ur mother side i need to take k of her feeling n persuade her to stand in ur way think 4u.... but u alwiz jus think abt urself..

if i bein rude...he jus da one who happened to hv his sperm join wiv ur ovum n maybe ur baby will hv some features look like him..

n wat?? that's it!!! he cant give a family to a baby...a proper one...no education...ur baby will only suffer more..u know that all the family tragedy happen in dis kind of family..

why dnt u give a better environment to the baby...please think b4 u do anything

i understand all tat... i'll try  my best...maybe wat i need is just some time....or some courage.... sometimes my mind is wired...

I've just read your blog and please believe me that you really need to leave the thug and do it now. Please, for your own good, don't take "some time", put your mind immediately to it and take action now. It'll be harder to leave the further into your pregnancy you get, and if he hits you again you'll be in a much worse position to be able to get out. Don't fear whether you'll be alone, I get the feeling you're a good person and you'll be OK.